If it weren't for birthdays, some of us would never have an excuse to throw a party. If you're like us, you believe birthdays are important, and should be celebrated – but not at the expense of your sanity! Here's three easy tips to make the next birthday party you throw a piece of cake!

1. Declare a theme

Murder mystery games are, of course, our favorite themes for a party. It makes hosting a party simple and low-stress and ensures a great time for all of the guests. But even if you don't host a murder mystery game, you can choose a theme that will take off on its own and create a lively atmosphere. Some examples are: An 80’s reunion, beach party, Luau and, the old frat club classic, Toga!

2. Make it a potluck

When you're throwing a party for someone else, it's easy to rally your guests for help with the food. When you invite people, tell them it's a "Potluck for Libby's Birthday" and most guests will be more than happy to help out.

3. Recruit a decorator, or decorators

Cheesy dollar store decorations are only good when they are put up with care. Recruit a decorator or two by asking your kids, husband, wife, boyfriend or the kid who mows your lawn to help you blow up balloons. The pay-off? Getting to rub balloons against their heads before sticking them to the wall.

For more party ideas and help, visit the Host Help section on the Shot In The Dark Mysteries website at and enjoy your piece-of-cake party!